My dad is no more...
I didn't spoke him for a couple months, just because something small...
My sister and his grandkids didn't see him for 5 years, just because of something big...
He was a stubborn man :-(
a Mourning-card was in our mailbox, just like that!
...We didn't know he had the terrible "C"...
cause nobody told us... Not even his girlfriend who now suddenly is his wife?!?...
Not even my halfbrother...not even her daughters...
The'yre names are all on the card, including their partners?!?...
But no sign of ours.....
How cruel, brutal, abominable, gruesome, heinous, inhuman, barbaric can you be?!?....
It's unreal... I feel numb...dazed...
Dad, maybe you realize what you have done now you're a spirit...
Maybe you can visit your grandkids once in a while, now you can fly...
and maybe you protect your daughters, now you've got the power to do so...
Rest in peace stubborn daddy....
Ohhhhhhh Donna, I am so sorry my dear.
ReplyDeleteSending Love Your Way,
LuLu
So sorry Donna! Sterkte met het verwerken van je verlies!!!
ReplyDeleteJeetje Don, wat erg meis.
ReplyDeleteHeel veel sterkte en een hele dikke knuffel van ons.
xxx
Hope you wil get the strength to bear this sorrow, anger and all the other feelings you must face and that your family will support each other. Many people are with you!
ReplyDeleteHow very sad and yet, very terrible of his "wife." I just don't understand why some people can be so hurtful especially during a time like this.
ReplyDeleteYou and yours will be fine and closer for it...he is at peace now and I feel as you, he now understands what happened and why. Just know you will be fine and you did nothing wrong and should take no responsibility for what this woman did to you and your family.
so sorry to hear of your loss :( i don't think it is your dad who is so cruel, but the living who ordered the printing of the mourning card. may the passage of time open thier eyes to petty meanness of spirit they have demonstrated.
ReplyDeleteDonna, sterkte met je verlies.
ReplyDeleteKnap van je om het zo te verwoorden.
Oh Donna, I am so sorry. Both for your loss and the horrible way you were treated.
ReplyDeleteOh sweet Donna, I am so sorry for your loss and then the hurt that it came in such a shocking and terrible way. Please forgive me for not having been here for awhile to read. I am so sorry. hugs, Oma
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh Donna, I am so sorry for your hurting heart and your mothers and your siblings.
ReplyDeleteEverything is love on the other side and he knows now.
Love and light to you always.